This is going to be a rather crude and unorganized update of the past few weeks.. just warning ya'll.
Cam's dad passed away two week ago on Monday. Although we knew he didn't have much time when we saw him the day before, no one thought it would happen that fast. He had been only been moved to Shaver a few days prior to our visit. Sadly, Joe had been more or less unconscious all week; a steady decline from his previous status at St. Catharines General. However, he was awake to hear Cam tell him he loved him and repeated my words when I told him to keep an eye on the troublemakers (two of his sisters were visiting also at the time).
We went home that night. The doctors had said that Joe's heart was strong so it was hard to say how much time he had. At work the next day, Donna called me in a panic. Joe wasn't doing well. His lungs were filling with fluid. She told me she would call back when she knew more as the doctor wasn't there yet. Around 12:30, she called and all she said was that we needed to get there as soon as possible. Cam's work was kind enough to lend us a van and off we went.
We were looking for parking when Brandon called. Joseph Choscinski had passed away about 15 minutes before we arrived.
The next few days were a whirlwind of picking out flowers, sorting through pictures and spending time with Cam and the family. Meeting Joe's old friends, work colleagues etc. Getting introduced to some of Cam's oldest pals under the most unfortunate of circumstances.
The thing that blew everyone's mind was how many people Joe knew. He really made an impression on quite a few people. I know he made a very lasting impression on me. He was always in a good mood. Always had a positive attitude. And he loved to pick on me.
I'lll miss that, a lot.
I want to thank everyone for their kind words over the past few weeks. For the cards, flowers and hugs. It means a lot to Cam, his family and myself.
Today, we are going to celebrate Joe's life at the Polish hall. It should be a really, really good time. No sadness, no tears. Just laughter and memories.
Okay. Moving on.
This week I finished my photography sessions with Ana. I think I've got a really solid understanding of all the camera functions now and look forward to putting everything into practice. Thinking of building a portfolio. We'll see where this goes!
I got promoted at work. I will be replacing Natalie when she goes on maternity leave and will be the Office/Recruiting Coordinator for all of the Consultants; handling everything from reception, to payroll and research etc. for the recruitment side. Looks great on a resume and I get a sweet raise!
This weekend:
- Lunch with Kim @ Frescos tomorrow (I have not seen this gal in over three years!)
- Webcam date/tea @ Deb's. I get to see Deny and Ethan!
- I hope to see Holly and Drewish. I should probably contact them.. har
- Thanksgiving Sunday at my 'rents place with dads fam featuring Cam, his mom and bro. We're creating our own traditions
I hope everyone is doing well. Toronto LJ gals: we need to seriously organize a hang out of epic proportions.
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